whitefeather, I am sorry to hear that you went through the same thing. I hope you are feeling better now. I still don't know what to do. I might ring my doctor and book an aptm for the operation. I just feel very scared when I think about another operation. My last experience was so bad. I feel exhausted from just thinking about it.
Thank you for your kind words boniej. I am at work now and should be concentrating on what I am doing but I feel much better just being on the mumsnet.