Lost Dad recently

[BeckH77]

Hi. I’ve never posted on here before, but I just needed to talk. I’m 8.5 weeks pregnant, and have been suffering from all day every day nausea for about 3 weeks now. During this time my Dad died after a two year fight with brain cancer. His death was massively traumatic. I just feel swamped with emotions, and then also having to deal with the physical aspects of pregnancy. On top of that, I’ve just been referred to a specialist because of a lump on my tongue. My doctors tells me it’s more than likely an ulcer but he still referred me. Has anyone else gone through multiple personal issues /traumas whilst pregnant and come out the other side? Any advice would be welcome! Thanks x

Oh goodness @BeckH77 , what a rough time you're having .

I don't have any advice, sorry, but I wanted to say I'm thinking of you and hope a little bump will help someone else come along with advice xx

Hi, I'm sorry for what your going through. I am 35 weeks pregnant, I lost my dad almost 8 weeks ago now. Still struggling alot with his death. It's so hard but I hope that my baby is going to bring all of the family some joy that is much needed just now. Hopefully your baby will do the same x

My mum and dad both passed away last year. I was 8 weeks pregnant when my mum died and 20 weeks when my dad died. It's a horrible situation to deal with and all the extra stress of worrying about baby too x