Thankyou for the quick replies guys. I have been on the SANDS website marina and i have to be honest and say i didn't find the forum much help........ if anything it was the opposite as there are so many scary stories of what happened to us happening again iykwim?....... i have a 6yr old and 3 yr old too and am scared of putting them through it all again as they were so excited at the prospect of Hannah coming too and instead got disappointment and a very upset mummy and daddy and my DD is still confused at times now. Thanks for taking the time to reply though x