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Life is shite sometimes

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themaskedpoEAster · 01/04/2007 19:23

DH been called to his Dads bedside
He (FIL) has cancer and has about an hour left in this world
Sitting here in and out of tears
Feel so sorry for DH and MIL
Life SUCKS sometimes

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PeachyClair · 01/04/2007 19:24

Not much I can say but

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themaskedpoEAster · 01/04/2007 19:26

thanks peachy

it really is the most heinous horrible nasty illness

just feel so sad

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hunkermunker · 01/04/2007 19:27

Oh, sweetheart

PeachyClair · 01/04/2007 19:28

It is an evvil illness.

I expect you know this, but the Macmillan Cancer Website now has a support area should your DH need to chat to someone in the same situation over the next X months (or years).

Of course, thats not to say he isnt welcome here. He is.

Nbg · 01/04/2007 19:29

Am so so sorry

WelshBoris · 01/04/2007 19:30

Love,hugs and thoughts for you and your family TMP x x x

Califrau · 01/04/2007 19:30

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tortoise · 01/04/2007 19:32
Sad
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themaskedpoEAster · 01/04/2007 19:33

first time I've had to use MN as a 'support' as such ...

Thank you so much ladies - it's nice to know I'm not 'alone' IYSWIM

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SpookyMadBunny · 01/04/2007 20:00

Sending you {{{{hugs}}}} hun, you know where I am if you need to chat XXX

theheadgirl · 01/04/2007 20:22

Sending {{{{hugs}}}} TMP, sorry to hear what you are going through

PelvicfloornomoreChocolate · 01/04/2007 20:23

Sorry

Frizbe · 01/04/2007 20:24

{{{{Hugs}}}}} hope he's not in too much pain at the end.

pinkchampagne · 01/04/2007 20:25

So sorry.

prawnsmum · 01/04/2007 20:26

so sorry

harpsichordcarrier · 01/04/2007 20:27

oh lordy
I am very sorry for your loss and your dh's

ScoobyDooooo · 01/04/2007 20:27

So sorry to hear this

Socci · 01/04/2007 20:28

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EasterSparklerEgg · 01/04/2007 20:29

Thinking of you all at this terribly sad time.

BeckleSpeckledEgg · 01/04/2007 20:33

how sad big hugs to you, DH and MIL.
I know I don't know you but I lost my Mum to cancer last year and your post touched me. Life is very unfair. It is lovely that your DH can be with his father and is probably something he will draw great comfort from in the hours, days and weeks ahead.

childern · 01/04/2007 20:41

I'm sooo sorry to hear about your sad news. Just before xmas my dad was told that he only has about 2 years left it's the worst felling in the world I fell for you both.

childern · 01/04/2007 20:41

I'm sooo sorry to hear about your sad news. Just before xmas my dad was told that he only has about 2 years left it's the worst felling in the world I feel for you both.

HEIFER · 01/04/2007 20:57

TMP - I am so sorry... I have missed you a couple of times on MSN and don't have your mobile..

I hope you are ok, and yes life does suck sometimes, but also lots of happy times and in time you will see that...

Chin up, take your makeup off so it doesn't smudge and have a good cry...

You know where I am if you need me (that is if we can ever get on MSN at the same time)....

VeniVidiVickiQV · 01/04/2007 21:06

x

kimiTheEasterBunny · 01/04/2007 21:12

Thinking of you TMP