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SUDC - Sudden Unexpected Death in Childhood

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Alifoxy · 13/03/2007 20:19

With the recent plight of Maude and her family I was interest if anyone has ever heard of the above and come across the organisation which supports this. I am proactively trying to create an awareness of this issue in the UK, and would like to hear from people who have or havent heard of this. I will be happy to share what I am hoping to achieve and fund raising I am currently doing in relation to this.

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Frizbe · 13/03/2007 20:22

I saw the case in the dredded 'Sun' of the 4 year old, whose brother found her dead in the morning, does this count

Alifoxy · 13/03/2007 20:25

I havent heard of that one Frizbe. The causes are unknown, very similar to SIDS, the child goes to sleep and doesn't wake up, though no illness is present and for no apparant reason...

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Hulababy · 13/03/2007 20:27

Sadly it can happen at all ages I think. I know of a a 20 year old who died unexpectedly and with no apparant reason in their sleep.

Alifoxy · 13/03/2007 20:29

SUDC came to my attention when a little boy Cooper Joshua Eason passed away at 22 months. cooper-eason.memory-of.com

It is not well know...and with all the fund raising for Maude, and I have been working to create an awareness I was particularly interest if anyone was aware of this...
www.sudc.org

Thanks all for taking the time

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Pennies · 13/03/2007 20:29

I also know of two adult cases. Sorry but can't help with child ones. Good luck with it all though.

triplets · 13/03/2007 22:15

Is this organization only for sudden death when the child has died in its sleep, or any other type of sudden death?

expatinscotland · 13/03/2007 22:16

There's an active organisation in the US for the loved ones of people who died of Sudden Adult Death Syndrome in their late teens.

triplets · 13/03/2007 22:18

Is that SADS, we have that here, I sometimes help on the phone, talking to a parent.

JanH · 13/03/2007 22:30

A local girl died a few months ago, aged 23-24 (not sure but she was in the year below DD1 at school) - at home, perfectly well, parents/boyfriend/siblings in house, popped downstairs for something and collapsed and died.

The brother of Gaby Yorath died similarly aged about 15 and I know there are others. It happens more often than we are generally aware of.

Good luck with your efforts, Alifoxy.

Saggarmakersbottomknocker · 13/03/2007 22:35

Ali - I've looked at Cooper's website. I'm so sorry for your loss.

I've heard of SUD but not come across that particular organsiation. In the UK we have SIDS.org.uk and SADS.org.uk. SADS tends towards death caused by arrythmia. I've also had contact with an organisation in the UK called c-r-y (cardiac risk in the young) again dealing with sudden death with a cardiac related cause. Maybe some of these sites would post a link to the SUDC site.

Kif · 13/03/2007 22:40

Can I ask in the most respectful way possible what the point is of raising awareness that our kids might drop dead inexplicably at any moment?

With SIDS, there are very definite and researched recomendations for reducing the risk that are being publicised. Do you have a similar message to spread?

littlelapin · 13/03/2007 22:42

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triplets · 13/03/2007 22:47

There should be more awareness because it is more common than you could ever imagine. My lovely Matthew was almost 15 when he died suddenly, he was never ever ill, it is the most heartbreaking shock, I will never get over it.

littlelapin · 13/03/2007 22:49

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Saturn74 · 13/03/2007 22:53
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3andnomore · 13/03/2007 22:53

I have read, in a german magazine, not sure which rag, about a dady who died sleeping, whilest his lil one was sleeping on his chest, and his wife found him when she returned home from shopping, the child coouldn't understand at all why his daddy didn't wake up...really heartbreaking!

AbbyLou · 14/03/2007 19:10

My ds's childminder lost a daughter aged 14. It was half term and her mum thought she was just sleeping late because she had been babysitting the night before. When her younger sister, then 10, went in to her she found her dead. It totally devastated the whole family. She had been suffering from unexplained faints and dizzy spells and her death was found to be from Long QT SYndrome which is a heart condition. They never knew she had it. All the family were tested and it was found her younger sister also had it. She has been on medication ever since but almost died last year. The only reason she survived was because she had had a funny turn and was in hospital when her heart stoppped. She has now had an operation to fit a defribrillator which shockes her heart if it stops. It is very, very frightening.

Alifoxy · 14/03/2007 19:20

Hi all

Thanks for your comments, I think there is some confusion SUDC support children over the age of 12 months who succumb to SIDS...ie as with Maude who sadly passed in January. Its not due to the heart stopping, they stop breathing as in SIDS.

In the posting it was asking why raise the issue of our children dying. Its a difficult area I agree, but most people believe the risk of SIDS disappears after the age of 12 months....it doesnt. Cooper and Maude sadly show this.

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MerlinsBeard · 14/03/2007 19:23

How is SUDC different to SIDS? I am a bit confused?

Alifoxy · 14/03/2007 19:27

SUDC is the organisation. SIDS is at the greatest risk between 4 and 6 months. It is rare in babies over the age of 12 months and yet still 1 in 100,000 seem to meet this fate. FSID in the UK support all children who pass from SIDS but SUDC is the only organisation in the world who particularly help bereaved family and fund the research of babies over the age of 12 months

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3andnomore · 14/03/2007 19:36

oh, by the way, I do realise you weren't asking for stories about aduilts dying off it, just thought, that I rememebr reqding that story and I had never ever realised that Adults can die of the adultversion of SIDS...I think it's called SADS or something...

Alifoxy · 14/03/2007 19:39

Thats ok...because of the work I have been doing in researching this subject all information and other people knowledge helps me in understanding what is really known

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Alifoxy · 15/03/2007 21:32

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littlelapin · 15/03/2007 21:40

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Alifoxy · 15/03/2007 21:49

That is so kind of you littlelaplin. I had the most heartbreaking yet worthy experience of my life meeting with Melissa and Josh. They were visiting London from Australia and took the time to meet with me for all my awareness and fundraising efforts in relation to Cooper and SUDC. I know she only works part-time so she may not get back in touch until Monday.
Thankyou again xxx

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