'When I heard about your child I hugged mine a bit tighter' - Like I care, I don't want to fucking hear it.
'If my child died I would never be able to '- So you would be so much more upset than I am, you have no clue what you would do or be like unless it happens to you.
'At least you have your other children/can have more' - I could have a million more children, it still wouldn't replace my son and daughter.
'I know how you feel my dog died and he was like a child to me' - Just no.
'I know how you feel my Granny/Uncle/Great Grandad died' - again, just no.
Then you get the people who make it all about them, so I end up comforting them because my children died.
The ones who don't even acknowledge that my children exsisted, the ones who shuffle uncomfortably when I mention their names, the ones who think I'm weird for daring to have pictures of my children up, the ones who think they should be forgotton, the ones who try and look for a way I am to blame so they don't have to think that it could happen to them, the ones who try to create a history that never happened to try and hijack my grief by making out they were so close, when in reality they never bothered.
Sorry for the rant, I had an email this morning from someone who thinks I want to hear that she is going to the baby garden I can't go to on my daughters birthday and telling me about her plans when she never even met her and fell out with me because she wasn't invited to her funeral (it was a very small funeral).
I can't make out if she is trying to be nice or just gaining attention by grieving for a child she never knew.
She has done most of the above, and it really grates on me that she is going to my place to remember my children when I can't.
I've encountered so many shitty attitudes over the years you would think I would be used to it, but this has really hit me today 
Sorry for the ramble, having a tough day today.