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feeling sad and guilty

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2shoes · 28/11/2006 12:45

just needed to write this down to clear my head.
My auntie has just died. I feel very sad. but......she has been so ill with cancer and just not"her" anymore. I sort of feel glad as well. as she is not suffering now.
My mum died of cancer after a long ilness so hated her going through it as well.
Just feel bad for not crying buckets.(she was in her 80's with a loving large family and husband)

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rahrah1 · 28/11/2006 13:05

You should not feel guilty, Her suffering has now ended, and she has obviously has had a fulfilling and good life. Celebrate the life she had and that she does not hurt any more. Take Care of yourself x

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