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Feeling a bit sad

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cece · 27/10/2006 19:52

The baby I miscarried in March would have been due today

No one has said anything to me - not even DH

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SoupDragon · 27/10/2006 19:53
Sad
Charleesunnysunsun · 27/10/2006 19:53

hugs to you today cece.

Littlefish · 27/10/2006 19:54

Cece - how very sad. Please take care of yourself today. Have you marked the day in some way?

littlemissbossy · 27/10/2006 19:54

oh I'm really sorry

your dh probably doesn't know what to say - maybe you should tell him that you need a cuddle - he probably needs one too

cece · 27/10/2006 19:54

Thanks - not sure if he has remembered or not...

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ShowOfBloodyAndSeveredHands · 27/10/2006 19:54

I'm sorry cece. Such a heartbreaking day for you.

Have a big ((hug)) from me.

cece · 27/10/2006 19:55

Not really had time to do anything today.

I was thinking of getting a tree for the garden but they had run out of the one I want in the garden centre.

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littlemissbossy · 27/10/2006 19:57

that's a lovely idea, what tree did you want, you could probably order online ??

cece · 27/10/2006 19:58

robinia (sp?)

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californifright · 27/10/2006 19:58

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cece · 27/10/2006 20:00

lol me too cf!

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littlemissbossy · 27/10/2006 20:01

one of these? - wow how big's your garden??

mustcackleorsuckbloodmore · 27/10/2006 20:02

Oh, Im sorry
I really wouldn't get upset about your dh though; I know that mine would never remember the actual date, but if he did know, he might not know what to say either. Not sure if that helps, but I gues I'm trying to say that its not that he doesn't care or think about your baby.

ludaloo · 27/10/2006 20:04

and {{{hugs}}} for you

littlemissbossy · 27/10/2006 20:04

you can order a tree from this website Trees Online
HTH lmbx

cece · 27/10/2006 21:16

littlemissbossy

no I don't think that is it - but difficult to tell. They grow to about 10 metres I think. We do have a fairly big garden.... but not that big. lol

mustcackleorsuckbloodmore

I think he really has forgotten. He didn't particularly want it - got pg by accident - so I think he was secretly relieved when I lost it Although doubt he would admit it to me.

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foundintranslation · 27/10/2006 21:26

Oh I'm sorry cece.

threelittlepumpkins · 27/10/2006 21:28

Oh cece
I am thinking of you, and your little one too xxx

essbee · 27/10/2006 21:42

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