so so sorry.
I have a close member of the family who had a stillbirth....in fact my stepmother.
she had her daughter (my half sister) in 1993, and called her Aphra-Millie. She lost her during labour due to placenta failing (the midwives had let her go too long over dates it was discovered at the inquest).
For her the most painful thing was how everyone seemed to make it into a huge secret....Aphra was never mentioned, nor my stepmothers feelings. I went a lot tho in the early days....i took food and did their shopping for them cooking meals and freezing them etc.
later on it was harder as distance and time and other issue got in the way, but when I have seen her since she often mentions that as being the best possible help.
that, and the fact that I collected a few bits and pieces for them for a memory box....a trinket box for a lock of hair, frame for the scan picture, album for the other pictures....and I had her name engraved on a locket for my stepmother to wear too. (in fact, that was the one thing that made her cry as she was then able to carry Aphra with her and really hadn't felt at peace until she could do that again.
It is a heartbreaking time for you all....and the first few days are so very very hard, but then she will find that the next weeks and months will be harder again.
the date she discovered she was pregnant will be hard, as will other times up until the first birthday/anniversary. And even beyond that....it will never leave her. but allowing her the time to grieve, the acceptance to talk and the ability to feel loved and she will 'get thro it' in a best a way as is possible for her.
my sympathies are with you all.