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my dp's sister

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noddyholder · 03/05/2012 11:03

Has been found dead in kent.i just don't know what to do

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eggyblackett · 03/05/2012 11:05

Oh noddy, I'm so sorry :( Do you have someone with you right now?

noddyholder · 03/05/2012 11:07

He is home i will have to do all the phoning around but i keep putting it off Sad dp is heartbroken

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noddyholder · 03/05/2012 11:13

Not really Sad dp can't talk. I am worried as the people i need to call are elderly and ill. They are doing autopsy i will wait think its a suicide Sad

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SoupDragon · 03/05/2012 11:15

So sorry to hear this
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noddyholder · 03/05/2012 11:19

Thanks i am shaking like a leaf

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chipmonkey · 05/05/2012 18:07

noddy, how are you and dh bearing up?

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noddyholder · 05/05/2012 22:12

Thanks for all your concern. I thought I had experienced stress but this is a different scale. No one knows what happened to her. The can be no funeral for at least 6/8 weeks awaiting toxicology. We are in thentwilight zone tbh. Tonight has been a bit calmer but police coming tomorrow Sad

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RandomMess · 05/05/2012 22:15
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sassytheFIRST · 05/05/2012 22:16

Oh poor you and poor dp. How very terrible. So sorry this is the outcome x

Hassled · 05/05/2012 22:16

I'm so sorry - how awful for all of you.

fivegomadindorset · 05/05/2012 22:17

So sorry to hear this Noddy Sad

noddyholder · 05/05/2012 22:37

Thanks x

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MirandaWest · 05/05/2012 22:43

Really sorry to hear this :(

ArcticRoll · 05/05/2012 22:57

Sorry to hear this noddy,what an awful shock for your dp and you.

BIWItheBold · 05/05/2012 23:02

Oh noddy - I am so, so sorry. What a shock for you all Sad

Look after yourself.

noddyholder · 06/05/2012 15:57

God police cancelled due to a major over night incident in their area and now will come Friday. Don't know how dp will last Sad So stressful. It is the not knowing I think and the lack of funeral etc. MN and chocolate keeping me sane

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BackforGood · 06/05/2012 16:08

It's a very difficult time for you all. So sorry to hear your news, and sending you unMNly ((Hugs)).

noddyholder · 06/05/2012 16:09

Thanks Smile It is like living in a newspaper story a bit 'these things don't ever happen' It has been a real wake up call about just living every day thats for sure.

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Thumbwitch · 06/05/2012 16:12

Oh God Noddy, so sorry to hear that! What a horrible event in your lives, and to have to wait so long to find out what it's all about.

Hope the police can shed some light on it without causing more distress.

How old was your DP's sister? Was she older or younger than your DP? not that it really matters, either way would be awful. :(

noddyholder · 06/05/2012 16:19

She was 54 so older. No children thankfully.

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