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SantieMaggie · 16/12/2011 14:59

My nan has been really ill for the past few weeks. I haven't seen much of her over the past 5 years (long story) but I've been to see her twice in the past couple of weeks. She's outlived the2 weeks she was given to live and I was planning to see her next week.

Just had a call to say she probably wont make it through the next 24 hours.

How do i decide whether to go see her now? How do I know whether I've said enough of a goodbye?

I can't stop crying and I don't know whether me going and crying all over her is going to make things worse for her.

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SantieMaggie · 16/12/2011 15:47

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ajandjjmum · 16/12/2011 15:50

How sad. It's great that you've seen her over the past couple of weeks. If you can make the arrangements, I would go and see her again, as I'm sure you won't regret it.

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