do i go see him ?

[ilovesprouts]

hope this is the right place to put this .. my dds nannas partner has cancer ,hes not got long now 7-10 days :( all the family have been to see him but not me ,ive never seen anyone dying and im scared as ive not seen him for a few years do i go or do i remember him as i knew him !:( i dont know what to do ?

also hes at home as he does not want to go in a hospice !!

Sorry to hear that Ilovesprouts you do what you feel is right for you.

When my Grandad was dying everyone went to see him but I just couldn't. I didn't want to see him in pain or anything. Everyone understood my reasons and i'm sure my Grandad did too.

I couldn't even go and see him in the chapel of rest once he'd passed away. I don't feel guilty but I remember him the way he was.

Sorry if thats no help.