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Please keep Motherinferior and family in your thoughts this week

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Marina · 20/10/2005 12:54

Her dp's mum is gravely ill and likely to die quite soon.
MI has been such a magnificent friend and support to so many people on the site and via e-mail I hope she will not mind my posting this as I think it might help her to know we are thinking of her, dp and the Inferiorettes.
Marina XXX

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motherinferior · 20/10/2005 13:28

Oh, thank you very much. It does mean a lot. She has been ill for a while now, and it is that stage which will be familiar to many of you where one has to take every day as it comes; and I'm on my own for long stretches with the girls.

But everyone - work, MN, RL, school gates - is being absolutely lovely. Thank you so much.

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spookylucy · 20/10/2005 13:29

xxx

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RottenRhubarbWitch · 20/10/2005 13:31

I remember when my own grandmother died from a long and drawn-out illness, it was so awful at the end. I was 3 months pregnant with my first and she so desperately wanted to see the baby. Nearly every day we were visiting thinking that it would be her last day, and we were saying our goodbyes to her. I'll never forget it. So I really do wish you strength MI, and a lot of cyber-hugs. Hope it ends soon, iykwim.

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Prufrock · 20/10/2005 13:31

MI I am sorry. I do know something of what you are going through, dh's father has cancer and probably less than 6 months to live. Even though he has a fairly distant relationship with him and nothing is imminent, it's still difficult to know how to provide support to him. My best wishes to all in the inferiority complex

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beansprout · 20/10/2005 13:44

Best wishes to you, dp and the dds my love xxx

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Bozza · 20/10/2005 13:48

Thinking of you too.

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Issymum · 20/10/2005 13:53

I'm thinking about you too, MI. And DP - this must be horrible for him and made even worse by being in a new job. Any time you and the Inferiorettes fancy a day in deepest, darkest Surrey, let me know!

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bran · 20/10/2005 13:55

Best wishes from the bran household too.

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Beetroot · 20/10/2005 13:57

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doormat · 20/10/2005 13:58

motherinferior thinking of you
hugs
xxx

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Caligula · 20/10/2005 14:00

Sorry to hear this MI.

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colditz · 20/10/2005 14:01

MI you are in my thoughts.

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moondog · 20/10/2005 14:06

MI........

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GhostofNatt · 20/10/2005 14:09

Thinking of you all and hoping you get some respite. x

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Earlybird · 20/10/2005 14:20

MI - so sorry to hear that you and your family are faced with this....thinking of you....xx

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spookyserenity · 20/10/2005 14:47

So sorry to hear this MI

If you feel the need to get out of the house, take the DDs for a run in the park or whatever and fancy some company, you know where I am.

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BudaBabe · 20/10/2005 15:26

Thinking of you. It is such a hard time.

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dot1 · 20/10/2005 21:58

MI - lots of love to you
xxxx

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Hulababy · 20/10/2005 22:00

Thinking of you and your family at this time.

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Pruni · 20/10/2005 22:00

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buffytheharpsichordcarrier · 20/10/2005 22:00

xx

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philippat · 20/10/2005 22:01

love and strength to all of you, the limbo time is so hard

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Springchicken · 20/10/2005 22:04

Thinking of you MI x

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FauxVampire · 20/10/2005 22:07

Sorry to hear this, MI. If there's anything I can do, let me know. Dh is on leave for the half term next week, so there are two of us who could help/play host to the Inferiorettes if needed. Every sympathy to dp.

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QueenVictoria · 20/10/2005 22:08

Thinking of you MI x

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