my dd is 8 ,9 in 3 mths and seems to bee exploring herself is this normal. enjoying showering herself and feeling the fan in certain areas. she is very emtional and short tempered which i put down to hormones but i keep getting told by friend and family ( they only know about mood swings) that she is far to young for this. feel uncomfortable going to a professional ie doc,school nurse just in case i am made to look a fool. any suggestions on what i can do.? i am his difficult as u was abused from the age of and feel i am looking further into something that could be completely natural and should stop worrying. any advice please