biting pulling my hair tantrums an only 21mnths

[oliversmarmy]

wondered if my lil boy should be seen by someone,

as my title says he bites me pulls my hair and has tantrums and for some reason and has now started pokin g his tonge out at complete strangers plus meal times are just as hard sometimes ending in him throwing food squashing it, tantrums where he will find a wall to nag his head on

im at my whits end

Think its terrible twos
my daughter started at 18 months, was a cute little angel one day and then evil evil evil the next.

I was shocked, i actually disliked her sometimes but it does pass.

Just be consistent with the way you deal with him and dont get wound up. Stay calm and be firm. Even when you think its pointless he will be learning how to behave.

I used the naughty step technique and it was really good to have a plan of action when it started. I knew what to do and so I could remain calm.