i have been at my wits end with all of the above.
Daughter in now on Movical.
Still soils everyday and unless you have been thru this vicious circle of constipation it is hard to appreciate the turmoil!
no start chart or treat in the world with make her use the toilet.
Anyway - found an amazing charity which are really helpful and understanding with this particular issue an wanted to share with any parents with a similair problem.
www.eric.org.uk/
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