she is 4 months, and has been a terrible sleeper from the start. during the day she is often tired, tetchy and irritable. sleep is worse than ever, she often take 2 hours to settle after a night feed. even after a good sleep and a good feed she is not particularly smiley. I spend ages trying to get a smile but often she wont even look at me. she does make eye contact sometimes, and smiles sometimes, but often at random people. I cant help but feel rejected, and sad for her when i compare her to babies with sunny, relaxed personalities. I just want her to be happy. will things improve, or is this how she is, in which case I just need to accept her and lower my expectations.