my sons are 10 and almost 7 - they're constantly bickering and fighting - nothing dreadful but the eldest goads with his clever mouth and then the youngest lashes out and the older one then goes back at him. I've always tried to stop them and now it's become a daily occurrence - although they love each other, they don't seem to be able to spend more than 5 minutes together before it starts.
Just wondered if my intervening is what is keeping it all going. Apart from the fighting though, they talk back at me constantly and are very disrespectful - not sure if this is normal or how to stop it.
Thanks for listening