dd, 4 is at pre school and is outside a little gang of friends that she would like to play with. I am very open to encouraging friendships and don't want to push friendships that aren't flourishing, but there seems to be a little pattern which I want to know if it bears out . all the little group are younger siblings and the people dd seems to get on better with are older siblings. Is this a pattern that anyone else has noticed or is it just me?