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how do I stop her touching herself???

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kezabel · 15/07/2005 11:07

Hi everyone, I really hope you can help me out here. I look after a 3 yr old girl 3 days a week and recently she has become facinated with her private parts. I know that most children go through this stage but she is constantly touching herself there and has even started to do it at meal times which i find to be rather unhygienic. Does anyone have any advice on how to approach this matter??

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MamaMaiasaura · 15/07/2005 11:14

They all go do it.. ds still has a fiddle down there and dont think it stops for males.. eva!

Re your situation.. could it be that she is uncomfortable down there - maybe an infection? Would be worth speaking with her mum as she may need ot get checked by nurse.

emily05 · 15/07/2005 11:15

agree with awen. My ds is constantly fiddling with himself - I am hoping that the novilty will wear off!

Mum2Ela · 15/07/2005 11:21

DD is constantly fiddling ,and her nursery has pointed it out to me but said lots of the other girls do it too.

When in public I ask her to stop but tbh I think its just a phase and DD gets comfort from it (she sleeps with one hand down her nappy - not hygenic at all but there you go).

DHsays she gets her habit from me ;)

(she will be 3 in sept btw)

Enid · 15/07/2005 11:39

I think it is normal

wash her hands before and after meals and its unlikely she'll come to any harm

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