what should I *not* worry about?

[picklepud]

I am a bit of a worrier (lol at a bit). So what bizarre, seemingly antisocial things that my dc might do/ have done should I not bother to worry about in order to save my energy for the big ones? dd is 4 ds 15 months and I'd love some pre emptive advice because it's all new with the four year old and ds is very different (eg not really saying anything, not walking). Hope this makes sense. I am trying to be light hearted, but I do spend a lot of time mithering about things that prob aren't worth the effort!

You need to be clearer about what your DD is doing that bothers you.
Little 2yo boys thump everybody to get what they want (normal). Little 4yo girls whine the house down (normal). They are all over-sensitive hyper-emotional creatures (ime).