Finally, the doctor has now rung and confirmed that my daughter has ADHD but also feels that she could be borderline aspergers? So in light of her behaviour they have arranged an urgent appointment at the local ADHD clinic for next wednesday to offer some help and guidelines for over the summer and also talk to see if medication would be an option. Only last week as was saying that it was taking time, but what a turn around this is! I am more than grateful for their urgency of dealing with this matter once seen by the correct people. Only thing is WHAT NEXT?? So thanks to everyone for your support and your advise with this matter.