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Parenting skill is the key to all behavioural issues

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hobbgoblin · 17/11/2009 18:53

Discuss!

Whether you call it old fashioned discipline, modern behaviour management...whatever you call it...good boundaries, clarity and consistency will almost without fail 'cure' even the most badly behaved child.

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Doodlez · 18/11/2009 14:46

Nah - your genes are 'locked' I reckon Edam.

Anyway, don't be tryin' to engage me in a high falutin' debate Mrs, I'm too thick to express myself to that degree (shit genes .

edam · 18/11/2009 14:50

No, I'm sure you have lovely genes, it's just the environment that has inhibited them!

edam · 18/11/2009 14:52

And the way they are exhibited changes over time as well, to do with the culmulative effect of environmental exposure - that's why identical twins can end up being quite different in physical appearance/experience of illness by the time they are middle-aged despite having the same genes and sharing some astonishingly similar physical traits such as wrinkles in exactly the same places.

Acinonyx · 18/11/2009 15:44

Environment definitley affects gene expression - that is a major newish area of research. It doesn't alter the DNA - it alters chemical modifications of to/around DNA that alters expression of the genes.

But the possibilities are not unlimited. My favorourite quote on this is from Daniel Debbet: The genes hold the phenotye on a leash. That is, you can vary so much depending on your environment, but some outcomes are more likely than others, and some are affectively impossible. I think, for example, that my being a successful athlete is outside my library of possibilities......

Acinonyx · 18/11/2009 15:45

Daniel Dennett even

Acinonyx · 18/11/2009 15:46

phenotype, even, (typing in charge of sick 4 yr-old lame excuse emoticon)

Doodlez · 18/11/2009 15:50

S'crap typing genes....environment has buggered them Acin!

Thank you edam, my genes are very lovely

Still think levelling everything at the parents is too weighted. many people involved in a child's upbringing and sphere of influence.

Takes a village and all that.....

Acinonyx · 18/11/2009 16:57

Peers are very influential in children's lives (and adults, come to that)- so herding groups of 30 age-same peers through the institution of school may not be the brightest idea society ever came up with.

Yup, I definitley have crappy typing and spelling genes. You should be lucky you're not trying to read my handwriting.....

edam · 18/11/2009 17:05

Guess your genes would rule you out of being PM in today's environment, then, Acinonyx.

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