I have decided that she is just being lazy. I bought her some pull up pants not long ago. The ones with the dissapearing flowers (how is that meant to work anyway? The flowers only disspear after the laziness accident. She doesn't need flowers to tell her she has pee'd she knows when she has done it>
I told her to start using the toilet, asked her if she needed a wee. Yes she says. I asked her if she wanted to go to the toilet. No she says, wee, wee in my nappy
And she did.
She knows when she is going to do it. She knows how to use the toilet. She is using her nappies because she can.
She went to bed last night with no nappy and stayed dry. Went to the loo with dd1 this morning just fine.
MIL will not be happy. She is going there later on. But she needs to learn.