DS is 9 months old - has just got his first two teeth - and only just started going to sleep on his own at bed/naptimes with a bottle. I thought this was a good thing until I read that the bottle is rotting his baby teeth and I shouldn't do it... is this true? he's only had them 2 weeks - does decay start immediately or can we go with the bedtime bottle for a bit longer? and is it just me or is this whole having a baby thing just far more stressful than you ever imagined? and does everyone else in the world pretend they're ok? i'm really struggling with it