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DS1 is 4yo - I'm v worried about his learning Please reassure me...

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missingthemountains · 16/06/2009 19:30

DS1 will be 5 in Oct and therefore will be starting at school in Sept. I am getting really concerned now because he only knows a handful of letters and doesn't seem to be picking up any more (and is forgetting some he already knew). The nursery and pre school staff say not to worry cos they don't need to know their letters now but every other child we know who is starting school at the same time already knows ALL of their letters. The other thing that really concerns me is that he still doesn't know his colours - he knows black/white, brown, pink and that's about it. I have tried to spend more time with him doing this stuff but he really struggles to remember any of it yet seems quite bright in other ways. I am feeling very very guilty because I just don't have the time I would like to spend with him helping him learn.

Has anyone else been in similar situation? Might he have dyslexia/dyspraxia or similar?

I am feeling like a really rubbish mummy. (and don't even ask me about toilet training )

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chipmonkey · 18/06/2009 22:32

Oh, I should have mentioned that my aunt is an EdPsych and when I mentioned to her that ds2 didn't know all his letters before starting Junior Infants ( that's what we call reception in Ireland!) she was completely unconcerned. She said if he didn't know the letters at the end of the last term, maybe then she would have concerns but her boys had been the same. They both have degrees now!

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