how to cope

[dontstop]

hi

I am mum of four with a husband running a business and working from home. I find it tough as they are from 3 months to 4 yrs in age.
He is frustrated as he is pulled in sometimes to assist with me as they are 3 months 2 yrs 3 yrs and 4. For some reason i cope better when he is not around and the atmosphere is much nicer...i cant discuss with himhe cant take critisisum lol its a nightmare.
I wish he had a normal job and sometimes wasnt at home. But he does help too but kind of lets me know about it and makes me feel guilty. I understand it is hard for us both but this is just part of the course, no solution just take each day as it comes.
good to air out.My days are 24 hours on duty with these kids lol whats new hey!!!

its difficult when there is no structure and no assigned roles. my dh works shifts different all the time so sometimes he's home all day. its a nightmare.
i've only got one too!

makes no difference us girls cope better under preassure lol...one child or 10 lol
We do have a structure in place but it dosent always go to plan if one decides to do something urgent at same time as other...i want him to work out of the house its much more calm. I had an aupair and we worked so well and ran house so well together as team and it was a laugh...imight have to boot him out soon lol