3.5 is in Kindergarten (we live in Austria) and has to have a nap after lunch there, which means he's wide awake in the evenings. Bedtime has crept later and later until now, where he's falling asleep around 10pm. I tried to put him to bed at 9 tonight and he stayed in his bed without messing around, but didn't actually fall asleep till 10.15. This means I have to wake him in the mornings and he's tired, which means he sleeps very easily after lunch! Kindergarten keeps saying "he's a great sleeper!". At weekends, there are no naps and he's asleep at 7, 7.30. I am at my wits end and can't really see a solution... am expecting baby no. 2 in February and would just love to have eldest in bed while dealing with newborn. Any suggestions?!