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2 month old wont sleep on stomach

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maidezmoi · 10/09/2008 11:46

Hi I want to get my LO to take naps on her stomach during the day. However she flatly refuses to do so. Any tips?

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MrsMills · 12/09/2008 11:09

this is what you need

thisisyesterday · 12/09/2008 11:22

have you tried her on her side? safer than on her front.
Both of mine slept on their sides, but wedges so that they couldn't roll onto their tummies.

neither had a bald patch and they both have beautiful shaped heads lol
it's considered safer than having them on their tums, although obviously on the back is preferable.

frankbestfriend · 12/09/2008 13:40

Some babies do prefer to be on their stomachs, and when they can roll they will find the most comfortable sleeping position themselves.

However to ask for advice about how to make a baby, who clearly does not like it, sleep on her front against all medical advice is very

My dd had a bald patch until she was about 12 months, and now has the thickest, most beautiful head of hair I have ever seen.

My advice would be to reassess your priorities, sorry.

lulumama · 12/09/2008 13:42

just to agree with everyone else. she should not be forced to sleep on her stomach just to avoid a bald patch

if you are that concerned, then have her sleep on your chest, or in a sling with you.

or let the poor child sleep on her back as per medical recommendations.

GreenMonkies · 12/09/2008 13:51

"if you are that concerned, then have her sleep on your chest, or in a sling with you."

Definately, but not on her stomach alone in a cot/moses basket. They all get that bald patch, don't stress about it, it will grow back once she's got better head control/neck strength.

RonAndHarry · 12/09/2008 13:52

hair grows. babies who have died of sids do not.

mytetherisending · 12/09/2008 14:09

Most babies tend to loose all hair in the first few months and then it grows back. At that point they can usually roll so it isn't an issue.
I do think you are being fool hardy trying to make her sleep on her stomach against SIDS advice and through vanity.
Like others said, better to have a live bald baby than a dead one IMHO.

sasamax · 12/09/2008 17:20

Is it flat head you're worried about?
I think daytime naps in the sling will be the best way to avoid it (and also give you great bonding and closeness with your baby)

maidezmoi · 12/09/2008 17:37

oh get a life you drama queens! Babies die of the flu more often than SIDS-should I keep her wrapped in clingfilm too?

Yes Sasamax my HV said on the tummy daytime naps to prevent flathead.

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Yanda · 12/09/2008 18:18

Well, that is gratitude for you They are just advising you of the guidelines, but yes it is up to you whether you follow them or not. There is plenty of advice to help you on this thread without you insulting people for pointing out the risks.

RonAndHarry · 12/09/2008 18:32

Shall we invite some mothers who no longer have their babies onto the thread, and you can tell them to get a life?

fryalot · 12/09/2008 18:33

If you want to ignore ALL the advice both on this site, what your own health professionals will have told you and what EVERYBODY knows to be factual because you are concerned about your baby's hairstyle...

really, is it worth it?

Why don't you buy some peroxide as well so she can have that blonde head of hair that you always dreamed about?

why not put her feet in shoes that are too small for her so she can have dainty little tootsies as well?

And while you're at it, why don't you insult everyone who, at the end of the day, are trying to stop you from putting your baby at risk.

maidezmoi · 12/09/2008 18:38

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RonAndHarry · 12/09/2008 18:40

whilst you're at it you could consider these type of shoes when she is older - nice pretty, dainty little feet

maidezmoi · 12/09/2008 18:40

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fryalot · 12/09/2008 18:40

" By maidezmoi on Thu 11-Sep-08 15:25:58
Thanks for the replies. But I don't believe that napping on the stomach will do any harm during the day when she's supervised. She's rubbed the back of her head bald from throwing her head back and forth when she's trying to get to sleep"

hairstyle no?

so, let me get this right, you put your baby's life at risk because you are an ignorant cow who thinks she knows better than EVERYONE else and you call me stupid?

either you're a troll or you're a twat

fryalot · 12/09/2008 18:41

and I'm a nasty piece of work?

and a scumbag?

hmm.... okay

maidezmoi · 12/09/2008 18:41

Oh how very hillarious Ron. Really brave behind you keyboard arnt you, you vicious little toad?

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RonAndHarry · 12/09/2008 18:42

Or both.

You never once mentioned pain. You talked about baldness.

maidezmoi · 12/09/2008 18:42

Yes leave the thread Squonk, it's obviously a little over your head

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RonAndHarry · 12/09/2008 18:43

Yup, people in RL scare me. I can be honest online rather than just keeping quiet.

I'm thinking you are just a bitch in both guises.

fryalot · 12/09/2008 18:43

over my head?

hmm....

methinks there is a flying troll on the loose on this thread.

Where's lapin's spray?

TequilaMockinBird · 12/09/2008 18:44
Hmm
maidezmoi · 12/09/2008 18:44

It's a big red patch Ron, and yes it's bald-not that she has anything more than bumfluff over the rest of her bonce. She rubs her head every night against the matress in a two and fro motion

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LittleMyDancing · 12/09/2008 18:44

maidezmoi, I copied and pasted this for you from Safe Kids UK. It indicates that flat head is nothing to worry about, and most doctors think the helmets are completely unnecessary.

"In most cases, a baby's head will return to a more natural, rounded shape once the child begins crawling and standing, but some parents prefer to purchase a helmet to help reshape their baby's head. Most effective when a baby is between the ages of 4-12 months, these helmets are worn almost continuously for a number of months in order to help remold the baby's head. Their use is a bit controversial, however, since many doctors feel that they are unnecessary.

There are some recommendations to help babies retain a rounded shape to their heads while they are developing.

THIS BIT IS IMPORTANT: Although it is vital to continue placing infants on their backs to sleep, it is safe to adopt a "tummy to play" habit during the baby's supervised waking hours.

Another idea is to place the baby to sleep with his head at alternating sides of his cot, encouraging him to tilt his head in various directions to view the room. By finding ways for the baby to take the pressure off the flattened area, the head will grow in a uniform manner. As babies continue to grow and develop, their increased mobility and physical capabilities will ensure that their heads do not regress to the earlier flattened shape.

Flat head syndrome is a purely cosmetic issue; it in no way impacts the child's brain or intellectual development. Nonetheless, parents worldwide are expressing their concern and seeking the advice of specialists. Craniofacial physicians have noticed a dramatic increase in inquiries from worried parents over the past few years. While most cases of flat head syndrome correct themselves, if you are concerned, be sure to consult with your child's pediatrician.