Hi all,
Ds woke up after 2.5 hours!
I brought him downstairs and we sat and had a chat.
He said he did not know why he had done it, AND volunteered that he has squeezed her arm as hard as he could because she wouldnt play what he wanted her to play.
SO, i appologised for shouting and getting mad, i told him why i was mad, we made friends and i together we made a "sorry" card for his little cousin.
We are continuing with the strict diet restrictions, with calm voices, and he is better.
We are not going to see the family, its not healthy.
Speaking to friends about it, they all say what you all say, but what is more reassuring is that each and every one has said "oh God, i remember when mine went through that stage"
What rings in my ears and panicks me are his teachers words after she called me in because he was squishing snails, she said "things like this can lead to much worse things"
I though that he is going to be a psychopathic mass murderer...starting with the torture of small animals and children!
He is not a gentle soul by any means!