My biggest regret so far is.......

[SqueezyDiva]

DS is still only 6 but I wish I had

Gotten a nanny instead of a day-nursery when he was a babe,

Taken him to the paed for his behavioural problems a year earlier

that´s it so far. anyone else?

Done soemthing about my PND earlier with DS1. I still struggle with him and live with the guilt that I fucked him up in the early days.

not being patient enough

Not taking a full year of mat leave. It's been bloody hard bfing and doing totally unpredictable shifts.

I suspect that the things we think we´ve done wrong they won´t remember. Anf the things we didn´t see as a problem, they´ll hate us for. That is until they have their own kids of course!

hahaha wise words squeezydiva!

Pretty much echo bronze's post. Wish I'd have told people how demanding ds was instead of hiding away and pretending everything was OK and I was coping, when I wasn't.

Struggling with PND and not appreciating the first few mths with my beautiful baby