wondered if anyone can give me a pearl of wisdom. I'm a father to a DD, recently resigned work and in process of setting up my own biz, so I'm at home at the moment. My DD is in nursery 3 days a week, and with me the remaining 2 (and both of us on weekends). She is developing an aversion to her mummy, which is driving us both to distraction, there is no reason for it, but she wants to spend all her time with me, and seems to never want the comfort of my wife. I always assumed it would be the other way round, I'm not authoritarian but not a pushover either, but do play with her when I have her.