Aahhh my almost 6 mth old (down syndome + congenital heart defect) dd patted my back today and then sat up while I was carrying her to look me in the face and then touched my face. I almost melted!! It is so great to have those moments. It seems so lame but it really made my day... Had a couple of difficult weeks with plumbers, 4 days with no heating ( finally fixewd yesterday in time for snowy day today), inland revenue, social security and child benefit.