Yes there are times when it feels constant at other times he is the most loving and adorable little boy. He smacks me and my dh(in the face when we get down to his level). He hits and kicks ds2 and other children. The other week at toddler group he crashed a toy tractor on a little boys head causing a bump and the mother had to put a cold compress on it. It was awful. Yesterday he was taken out of creche in church because he was hitting kicking and throwing toys at the other children. Apparently he did it loads of times and wouldn't listen to anyone. The lady in charge said she let it go loads of times but he just kept doing it. She tried speaking to him firmly but nicely but he wouldn't listen. He pushed another child around there last week too. The strange thing is he loves creche and can't get there quick enough. Tried talking to him but he just screams and hits me. He also hits himself and shouts "smacking (ds name) because I'm naughty!! Help I'm deperate!