i am looking for advice my 2 year old isnt eating any food a put to her all she wants to drink is milk if she doesnt get milk she goes into a tantrum how can i get her to eat this has been a problem since shes been a year in a half and also a have a fear when she has finger foods that shes going to choke so am just spoon feeding her as i have severe anxiety shes going to choke how to get out of that fear and also what suggestions on to get her to eat