I am so stress and alone

[khanii]

I am a new mother, my baby is five months old, and he cries a lot. I feel very worried. Whatever I do, nothing works. People just tell me to keep him in my arms. I also cry along with him. Please tell me what I should do, give me some ideas. I don’t even have a car to go anywhere. My family is not here, I am alone with my husband, but my husband goes to work. I feel very stressed and worried.

You poor thing @khanii

Are you able in the UK? If so, can you talk to your HV?

Are you able to go out for walks with your baby?

If they’re crying a lot, do they seem uncomfortable, like gas and tummy pains?

@BunnyRuddington Thank you very much. I think my baby is teething. I’m not going out with my baby. I’m also scared in past. I’m facing a lot of sexual harassment traumatise because of these things. I’m alone here. It’s really hard to take care of a baby.🥺

I’m so sorry that you’re facing sexual harassment and trauma. Does your Husband know?

If baby is teething, that’s hard. Have you tried giving them some pain relief for babies?

Yes, my husband know everything. He really helped me. I give him paracetamol. He has really bad fever and Also, I have flu and fever as well. I’m going for therapy for trauma.@BunnyRuddington

You poor thing. Looking after babies is hard. It’s hard when they’re unwell and even harder when you are too. Is your DH able to look after the baby for a bit so that you can have some sleep?

@BunnyRuddingtonHe is on work baby is not sleeping I am crying 😭

Have you got anyone who can help you or you can talk to?