Having a bad day with DD (10) & I just remembered that when we went shopping earlier in the week she fell in love with a lovely pair of brown sandals (which didn't come in her size) so I said go & get a treat - & she went & picked up some muesli bars
So i must be doing something right - brown & comphy is better than pink & sparkly & healthy/nutritious is better than full of crap/rubbish