Good morning
I have a 4 year old daughter who is so angry she hits, kicks, punches, pinches, spits and now she’s started pulling my hair.
We were made homeless in June so currently staying with my mum (the landlord wanted the house back) we are on council but getting nowhere with that and haven’t been able to find anywhere private rent that I can afford as I have split up with their dad.
So I know how unsettled we are at the moment but this can’t be normal for a little girl to be this angry and aggressive towards me? It’s half term no school she hates being out of routine.
I have a 10 year old daughter who was very similar to this at her age she has been referred to CAHMS but she masks at school.
So last night her tablet was dead so we went and got the charger but before plugging it in she kept putting the end in her mouth I told her no then she did it again so I took it away and said no tablet today. She kicked off hitting pinching me etc eventually I got her to sleep in her own bed she slept till half 2 then snuck in with me. She woke up at half 6 I tried to charge her tablet in the night but the charger is broke now. I explained because she put it in her mouth she broke the charger and her tablet will not work today. She then grabbed big chunks of my hair and would not let go, I said that hurts please can you let go but she just pulled harder and laughed. I believe she understands what she’s doing and she knows how much she’s hurting me. She kicks me in the back when she knows I suffer with a bad back. I’m drained from this abuse and I just don’t know what to do anymore iv tried everything and nothing seems to work with her.