Hi, this is my first child and I guess I'm looking for advice / experiences. My LO fights me every time I change her / change her clothes so much that it's impossible to do it without using all my strength as she is very strong and pushes back. I give er toys to distract her, sing to her, try to be gentle but she really fights me. I am worried that she is quite aggressive with me and sees me as an opponent rather than someone caring for her and wonder if this is something that will pass? She is not a baby that likes cuddles / kisses either, she will push me away if I try to. I guess I am just worrying about our relationship.
She loves games and excitement so thats how I manage to bond with her. Maybe she might be more affectionate when she's a bit older?