I'm a mum to a 3 1/2 year old and almost 2 year old both boys. Neither listen to me and I find my self shouting and angry all the time. I know its not the right way to handle things and i feel like massive failure every time it happens. My eldest is delayed with his speaking which also doesn't help as we both get frustrated. I want to be better for them and for me. This is not the mum I signed up to be :(