Hi All. This is a weird one regarding my nephew. Never having kids of my own. My nephew is 17 is shy beyond words and mumbles when he talks. He is unable to make a decision and is not able to do the simplest of things for himself. I know he is spoilt as he is the youngest of 5 and the only boy but I think it is more. He has a strange gait and has no real interests of his own only those suggested to him by an older male. Has no interest in working. As an example the older male suggested American football. My nephew went twice and now wants ro be an American footballer. I know this sounds funny but I am getting worried about him. As an afterthought my father was A paranoid schizophrenic who was very abusive. My sister see nothing wrong with my nephew. I am unsure how to approach this anywhere else x