My daughter was placed with me by ss when she was 7 after some probs with her mum. She has very limited access to her mother and from age 7 - now(13) all has been great. My one and only concern is she has become very tom boyish. I understand she is a teenager but while her friends are now becoming more girly for want of a better word she has no interest in any of that. I want her to be who she is but I don't want the lack of a female figure to affect her growing her up and have that lack of that input in her life. I don't know if I am over thinking things and should just leave it as it is.