How old was your kid when they -
- started cutting up their own food with a knife and fork? I.e. you stopped cutting their sausages and fish fingers into bitesize chunks
- started wiping their own b*tt after a no.2?
- got themselves dressed for school without help, including socks and shoes?
- started helping with basic chores, like washing up, tidying, dusting etc?
- started getting food for themselves, eg. Helping themself to snacks from the cupboard/fridge or preparing a simple meal. I mean like cereal and milk, getting cutlery, knowing their way around the kitchen. Not cooking a Sunday roast 😂