Parenting

[Rachaelc1981]

Does anyone else HATE being a parent?? Don’t get me wrong I love my children but I just hate being a parent and everything that goes with it. I have 3 children 12, 8 and 2.5 and I just feel like a total skivy from the second I open my eyes to the moment I close them. Not one of them does as they are told, I don’t feel like a mam I just feel like a babysitter 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

My daughter is 9 months old this week. First baby.
My husband and I have always been active people and gym goers. Now I have adapted and go 2 evenings a week at 7 and a Saturday morning when she naps. My husband is in the office Tuesday and Wednesday where he is not there from morning till after bedtime so he goes gym super early those mornings which is fine. Then the other days we wants to go the mornings also, however we works till 6.30/7 also so basically I am on all the time during the week except when I go he takes her from around 6.30 and she goes to bed at 7.
Don't get me wrong he never has said no when I want to do something and he does have a close bond with our daughter. I just feel the split during the week is off.
I said to him last night this isn't going to work. We have 0 family time and are passing ships and sure he got so defensive and said this is why he isn't having another baby. Thought I was having a go and I said I am not having a go, you just don't like what I am saying.
Thoughts please?