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Son doesn't want to grow up

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Itsasunshineyday · 30/08/2023 17:03

My 11 DS has started secondary school this week and is having a really hard time adjusting to his new environment especially lunchtimes in the busy canteen area.
Twice this week he has mentioned to me "I feel like I'm growing up and I don't like it, on top of everything else Mum". He is proper fed up and quite depressed. I can offer him advice about the new school, lessons, lunchtime chaos etc. But I'm struggling to find the right words and advice to give him about not wanting to grow up. Any help greatly appreciated.

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Nowconcerned · 30/08/2023 17:28

No advice but saving thread to see what responses you get - same with my 10 year old daughter.

Itsasunshineyday · 30/08/2023 17:33

Nowconcerned · 30/08/2023 17:28

No advice but saving thread to see what responses you get - same with my 10 year old daughter.

I'm kind of glad it's not just us. I've looked online and found no advice at all.

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Nowconcerned · 30/08/2023 17:36

Yep, I feel I have no clue what to say or do...

Itsasunshineyday · 31/08/2023 15:26

I've put this in "Chat" for more traffic. Lots of very helpful advice has been given.

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Nowconcerned · 01/09/2023 08:08

Would you send me a link - cannot find it!

Itsasunshineyday · 01/09/2023 15:57

11yr old DS doesn't want to grow up, help needed. - www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/4884557-11yr-old-ds-doesnt-want-to-grow-up-help-needed

Hope that helps x

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