I have 2 children. My oldest is just 3 and going through a phase of not listening and testing boundaries. My husband and I have different ways of handling this (he tends to be stricter whereas I prefer to give more freedom and listen and talk more) but I'm not convinced either is working and know we need to be more aligned and perhaps do something in the middle. Can anyone recommend a book that they found helpful for toddler behaviour, creating boundaries and trying to get children to listen? Thanks