I'm not sure if this is in the right thread or not so I apologize in advance.
Basically I've just had a call from my children's school, DS is in year 1, DD in year 4. Apparently today my two children were playing together in the playground and DD was with 3 friends who asked my DS to pull his pants down and show them his private parts, to which he did. Teacher is concerned that this happened but more that the year 4s have asked this, rather than that fact that my DS did it as he's only young.
I'm absolutely mortified and pissed off and feeling a bit wobbly about it,.although I truly believe it has no underhand reason, I'm at a loss as to how to react or discuss it with my DD and DS. They are not back from after school club yet but I don't know whether to be furious with DD for allowing it, or DS for doing it, what to say, whether to punish or just calmly discuss it. The school are not happy this has happened for obvious reasons and want to investigate it a bit further in regards to my daughter and her friends. Please advice because I'm truly at a loss as to what to say or do about it.