We don't know what to do anymore!! She has a complete attitude problem and is constantly lying, which we are tackiling. We had a chat a couple of weeks ago. Now, since her behaviour has changed with her attitude one minute and then tantrums the next I told her that I will treat her according to the age she behaves. It seemed to work for a while and we agreed that she could go and knock on for the new neighbour across the road to play. DH can also be a bit over-protective especially when it comes to swimming so when she asked if she could go off and swim with her friends, he just agreed.
Then yesterday DSD mum has a call from the headmaster telling her that he caught DSD red handed drawing on the school walls!!
We've tried meeting her half way here, talking and listening to what's bothering her and comprimising or agreeing where we can, and then she throws it back in our face with this.