Become friends with a girl in Yorkshire who have been let down by two young men as I reinstalled faith & moved to Harrogate & she move in very soon after 4 year Engagement / married move back to east coast for better job prospects ,wife 12 years my younger .few years lost her full time job due to disabled back spine issues - pensioned off . next came two children son in 1999 daughter 2002. down to having just purchased house one full time salary & a pension .One time helped many of her family over issues inheriting much money. Looking back schools never good enough & 44 miles daily been wasted on fuel .. middle schools same issue no with juniors schools 6 th so changed to catholic more coast for years as bus sickness became issue & did not meet th extra after school tennis / ballet clubs . Now the kicker over years the affection became less always issues when on hols .children now grown up have reach my goals good job & one at uni . However over 10 years the strain of my wage paying for most failed change of jobs for ever higher wages but also longer hours soon pick up less affection so I would prep Sunday lunch have drink after finishing all jobs cars ,gardening -painting ect .2019 rta on 125cc broken 3 ribs plus shoulder blade no help in recovery back to work Monday .01/2021 Big Cancel op bowel again no help with diet special meals -.08/2021 Took a night job on to increase wages . finally 03/22 father died week later wife requested divorce yes please, however she never file until 09/22 s per day ,night job meant must sleep during day but being interupted x 12 plus per day while she kept changing / washing really , Then Covid hit 07/2022 & in 09/22 after 13 months nights nhs informed heart issue gave up work to recover - that's when she filed for divorce ? & started going out coming home late DRUNK had not seen this coming ,hair now going twice a month - new clothing next arriving daily . My barber mentioned so many women hitting mid 50's want to be 21 x have fun ? well wanted me out of house for Xmas had me arrested later advised no charges all dropped cost £2 k in B & B (later ex stated wanted to build better case if goes to court ) Police took time 28 days with duty of care no charges all dropped waste of money .Now the gutter kick seen in that month while on bail my soon to be ex in a car having fun with another old man who has never invested 3 pensions & 34 years / 28 married invested into kids education / tennis / ballet ect x-looking after disable wife - never hurt anyone will now cost me £175K to give ex half the house while someone who picks up a latte has in car benefits- unable to sort divorce financial agreement as no one doing legal aid ay more . whats the point all to easy .. so to go on any advice please feel totally screwed .Appreciate iam not perfect but having fun in public really rubs in in my face cant follow find out who as be done for stalking as now have record mut be good for 6 years what a lessen ..