DD is 4mo, goes down easily at 7pm, wakes up twice in the night, goes down easily after first wake up (all good so far), but on her second wake up she's very tricky to settle - and this inevitably involves a bit of crying.
The problem is, this second wake up is usually around 5am, which is when ds (2yrs) seems to be in a lighter phase of sleep, and she always wakes him up. As a result, no-one gets much sleep after her second wake up (except her!). DS is starting to get dark rings to match his parents'!
They don't share a room and both doors stay closed. At the moment, I'm grabbing as soon as I hear a peep out of her, bringing into our bed (booting dh out) and feeding her lying down until she falls asleep. But I find it very hard to sleep next to her, it quite often wakes ds up, and it means she has to wake up when dh gets up for work... Any ideas?